julie_wh, I am praying for you seek Christian counseling. 🙏🏼
julie_wh, I am praying for you. May the Lord grant you His grace so you can control your spirit and not go on your own way in your relationship with Bret, but grant him some peace and freedom as a man and as your husband. In Jesus' name, amen! I am a 70-year old retired pastor and grandfather of eight, and can tell you from experience and a spiritual point of view that overly vocal women turn off men because that's a sign of domineering, and that goes against what God commands wives in Eph 5 and 1Pet 3.1 The love that God placed in your heart is a very strong bond. Don't injure it with your tongue. Amen.
julie_wh, I am praying for you