I heard of a woman who was so depressed she had never gotten out of bed for about 17 years. A Christian counselor gave her a bookmark that changed her life. You can find it at freedominchrist.com It is called the "Who I am in Christ" bookmark. She began reading the Scripture verses and affirmations on that bookmark, and it changed her whole life. She was able to get out of bed and go on with her life and to have one. Maybe you could order that bookmark for Bien.
Father, we pray for the sound mind of Christ to be given to Bien that he would trust God to protect his newborn son and wife. AMEN!
Dear heavenly father, please guide dear Bien to the professional help he needs. There are professionals who work specifically with men and their unique perspectives and issues that have been ignored or hidden for so long. Bless him with Your confidence so that he is free to cherish this time in his life. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen