There are three things a Christian needs to do, in order to be blessed in their finances. The first is tithing. The second is giving offerings. The third is living within a budget. Several Christian pastors have done teachings on this. Look up Robert Morris and Rick Warren.
JM55, I am praying for you
Dear Father God and Lord Jesus, Through your grace and mercy, please deliver JM55 and her precious son from any harm. I ask that you shield her any false claims. Please soften her husband's heart and lead him to a spiritual awakening. Please lead her to find the documents that probably have been misplaced. In the meantime, may she pray without ceasing for protection, wisdom and discernment. A couple of Scriptures that might help her are Psalm 91:14-16 and Psalm 142:5-7. May she remember that you will never leave or forsake her. In Jesus's name, I pray.