I know this is controversial, but if you check out the Weston Price Foundation, they have some things to say about raw dairy. Apparently there was a holistic dentist who lived a long time ago called Weston Price who believed that people could do a lot more to save their teeth. He wrote an entire dietary program that was meant to reverse and heal tooth decay in Western society. If you see a holistic dentist today, they might know what you are talking about, if you bring up Weston Price's name. Also, oil pulling is a practice found in Ayurveda that might help with tooth decay. Good luck.
If you're happy with your dentist, that's fine. But holistic dentistry might be able to offer you something more.
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