I pray for reconciliation between you. No matter the past hurts, slights, betrayals, denials, whatever, they are in the past and need to be healed and let go. I pray for this. I pray for both of your hearts to realize that you are family, and you need each other. The Holy Spirit is telling me for you to send a sweet card. Don't write anything but your name. And is you don't hear anything, send another. She may tell you to leave her alone and because you love her you will let her go for a while continually praying and the God of love and trust and believes in families will heal her heart and her mind and will tell you when to reach out and when to talk. I am praying for you. Believe, trust, and leave it at the feet of Jesus. Blessings.
Oh this is a tough one. Families as much as we love them and as much as we have a full history with them, the world happens, words are misunderstood, the past raises it ugly head, I don't know what your sister is feeling but I am praying for God to open her heart and her mind and open her to receive your love and continue. Ask for an ending of the past hurts, known and unknown. I am praying. I think perhaps a sweet card just saying you're thinking of her...the card says this...and just sign your name. Perhaps another card next week, and another...well you get the idea. I believe this suggestion, the Holy Spirit put into my mind. I will continue to pray that there is healing between you, no matter how long it may take and to keep your mind and heart free of hurt. She has her own path as do you, but HS (my name for the Holy Spirit) tells me that you need to keep on, live your life, and pray for answers and the best. I am praying for you too. Blessings.
toadie, I am praying for you