BethLauren, I am praying for you and your family. I pray God can make clear what your next steps should be!!
BethLauren, I am praying for you. One resource that can provide you some support is NAMI -National Alliance on Mental Illness. It's a grassroots organization that provides educational support for people with mental illness and their families. They are all over the US and some countries. I'll provide a link so you can go to their webpage and put in your location to find a group. My husband and I have a daughter with mental illness and it can be overwhelming for family members. They have classes and support groups that have helped me and others so much. www.nami.org. Prayer is my lifeline too. God bless you and undergird you and your family.
May you and your family be blessed with the Lords' healing spirit. Amen